Thursday 2 April 2015

How To Obtain True SUCCESS


  1. First and foremost let me start by saying we all have a common desire which is to be successful in what ever we do in other to achieve great success in our various fields there are things we need to make do of and let go of.

  1.  First we need to BELIEVE in our selves [ in my opinion i think we should always stand up for whatever we believe in no matter how odd/abnormal it might seem] what ever thing you believe in will surely work for you.
  2. We need to VALUE everything and everyone that come our way. Let's appreciate what we have and give thanks. Remember that by focusing only on what we want and never valuing what we have we become unhappy. 
  3. let's try and SIMPLIFY things for our selves by focusing on the present NOT the future. I said this because NOW[PRESENT] is always a good starting point in simplifying / getting things done. Trust me procrastinating is a road to failure please do not embark on such road it is a no no.
  4. We must APPRECIATE our God given gifts/talents, recognize them and put them to good use for others and our self. Sometimes we underestimate those gifts or even take them for granted. I advise we try and listen to what others may be telling us about our own gifts because this could serve as a reminder to us of our special capabilities. [trust me i am talking from experience]
  5. Let's Inculcate the habit of SAVING time, money and our energy as all of these are in limited supply.
  6. Let's Inculcate the habit of GIVING. Give without expecting anything in return. This is a difficult concept for many people to accept and apply. Yet it is in GIVING that we receive. We may give to others our time, services or money. A typical example of giving time to others can be drawn from how i take my time to answer peoples hair related questions freely without expecting anything in return. In-fact what we ultimately receive by giving can be abundantly more than what we refused to give.
  7. WORRY LESS, leave your fears and anxieties behind because worrying on an issue would not resolve it rather it will only dis-stabilize you from focusing on how to resolve the issue.
  8. Take CONTROL of the future. If you do not take control of your future then someone else will take control of it for you. Be in control of your BELIEVES your VALUES and your DREAMS. We must always be able to visualize what we want from life. Unexpected event will inevitably occur and cause us to slow down or even pause for a while, that is ok. The Important point is to maintain a focus that is right for us not someone else.[I am talking from experience]
  9. We must INVEST in our selves and in others. We take what we have such as saved-time, money, services and invest these accordingly. To be honest when we invest we assume risk but have the faith to know there will be a return someday.
  10. Let us MAXIMIZE our efforts in all that we do, regardless of what it is let us do it as well as we are capable. Although sometimes i get discouraged when it seems as if i am not moving closer to my goals but that is mostly the time i feel i need to draw on my inner/spiritual strength to forge ahead because who never knows when the next blow may break the ice and help us succeed.
  11. Let us make whatever CHANGES necessary to create our own security. Let's not forget that change is the number one constant thing in Life. We would always need to accept and adapt to certain changes in our life's in other to move forward.
  12. Let's learn to PRIORITIZE important things [our VALUES, BELIEFS and SECURITY].
  13. Its highly important to PLAN where we want to be and how we would get there. One cant go anywhere if there are no directions.
  14. And Finally i will huge you to ACT fast and ACT now by doing this..... take your God given gifts and start scattering those seeds. with enough effort and the help of God you will be secure and obtain true wealth. Pray often, BELIEVE and stay true to your VALUES no matter your circumstances.

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